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Dating someone you like but not attracted to

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He calls when he says he will. He takes you on interesting dates.

He texts back in a flash. And you laugh uncomfortably when they say it, because you think something must be wrong with you.

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You enjoy your time. You feel you should be into them.

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My friends talk about this a lot. Looking around on online discussion boards, like Reddit, my group of friends is not the only one asking these questions. This is a delicate matter, because attraction can grow.

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What else has been going on in your life? When it comes to attraction, two sets of circumstances can trip you up.

First, sometimes, attraction to a person can be confused with desire for a relationship. In that case, you just might not feel it for someone — even though you really, really want to.

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That can be confusing. Because you want to find love! So, always ask yourself whether you just want someone, or you want this specific person. Another issue that can stunt attraction is emotional distraction.

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Have you just been through a divorce or bad breakup? Have you been struggling at work, buried under stress?

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Have you just experienced a loss in the family? If so, you might need to clear your emotional slate before you can take on new feelings.

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How much do you like their personality? I have seen attraction light up as time passes, where two people get to know each other better and really like how those feelings evolve. Do you have similar senses of humor?

Do you love to talk about the same things, but still find intriguing differences? Does time pass easily, too quickly almost?

Look for someone with whom you have a great rapport. How long have you known this person? Let the person show more facets of themselves before dismissing them outright.

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Do they have things you deeply value? Part of giving the relationship a little time to grow is to see if this person has things you deeply value, and vice versa of course. What will help you grow as a person? I think of attraction like a trifecta; emotional attraction, intellectual attraction, and physical attraction. Intellectual builds the rapport, emotional keeps things stable, and physical provides the spark.

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Intellectual happens quickly, emotional takes time to see in full, and physical can be instant or arrive dead last. Initial attraction is like the first chapter of a book. It means something; you need to feel interested enough to want to read on.

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That said, some books start slower than others. Give yourself, and the mysterious ways of attraction, a little time.


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