I think it would be quite spectacular to have this URL printed out on business cards to whip out super-fast ninja-style when someone asks the question. Definitely a different list than 10 years ago. And I have no doubt that as time goes on, it will continue to evolve still. Ok, ok, you all know me. You know, The List.
For me, they began back in the days of M. To which a group of our guy friends responded with a list of their own — see above. And then…I got really annoyed with these kind of lists. Well, with the exception of Tim Riggins.
But to be honest, my wish list for a guy is now much shorter than it used to be. They are the guys who genuinely want to know how you are doing.
They are the guys who lend a hand or give to help someone without thinking twice. Alternative title for this one? But being able to look each other in the eye and talk about the big, the small, the serious, the funny, the difficult, the exciting, the hopeful things about life?
Basically, I consider myself a Christian, and would love to find a guy who says the same. And to each, his or her own. Someone who gets that life is not always black and white, but who believes that there is a purpose and hope and Creator behind it all. Someone who prays, someone who is a part of a community seeking to follow Christ, and someone who humbly wants to learn and serve Him. Especially those who have really wrestled with faith and have come out still wrestling but worshipping.
And big bonus if he lives in KC and can come to What i m looking for in a guy church, which is just about my favorite place on earth. Sure, it can grow the more you get to know someone, but there has to be at least something there to start with. And after being single this long, I damn well hope that I find a guy who makes my heart beat a little faster when I see him. Yep, was always drawn to the basketball players. I feel like it should also be noted that as I get older, I tend to find more guys attractive whom I might not have considered years ago.
But the fact still remains that some guys are more attractive to me, and others are more attractive to others. It all somehow seems to miraculously balance out in the world. Ok, this one may sound weird.