For some quick insights into how these questions might land, and how a girl might respond, watch our video interview above where we test out some of these questions.
If you could identify with one fictional character from a book, show, or movie who would it be? Would you tell a stranger they have toilet paper hanging from their shoe?
Or their dress tucked into their underwear? Or anything else that is embarrassing to be seen in public?
Do you screenshot the sweet texts that people send you? What in our lives do you think we should keep separate, or want to keep separate?
Would you rather live in one place for a very long time or live in many places and move around? What are the things you say that are sometimes different from what you mean? If you say nothing is wrong, do you usually mean it?
If you could go back and relive one year from your childhood, which year would it be and why? If you had to switch your career path right now to something totally different — and money was going to be no issue at all — what would you choose to do Questions to ask a girl out a living? If you could find out exactly what your life was going to be like in ten years from now, would you want to know?
If you were going to live in a nice, average house but one room in the house could be absolutely incredible, modern, and beautiful — which room would you choose?
Bedroom, bathroom, family room, kitchen, etc? If you could be on the writing staff of any tv show in the world, current or from the past, which show would you want to be a writer for? If you had the option of choosing between a chauffeur, a live-in chef, a personal stylist, a masseuse, and a round-the-clock assistant for the rest of your life — at no cost to you — which option would you go with?
If you could go back in time and tell off someone who hurt you, who would it be, and what did they do? If you could get a free one-hour life counseling session from any celebrity or famous person in the world, who would you choose? If you had the opportunity to learn exactly what every person in your life really thinks about you, would you take it?
Aside from water, if you could only drink one other beverage for the rest of your life alcoholic or non-alcoholicwhat would it be? If you had to give up one of your limbs in exchange for there being a cure for cancer, would you do it? If you had to cut off all communication with one of your best friends for five years, who would it be?
If you had to cut off all communication with one of your close family members for five years, who would it be? If you had to read one celebrity memoir over and over again for the rest of your life, whose book would you pick? If you Questions to ask a girl out accomplish any heroic feat in the world but no one would ever know it was you solve world hunger, instigate world peace, etcwhat would you choose? If someone paid you a million dollars to wear the same exact outfit every day for the rest of your life, would you do it?
If you could be a famous athlete, model, comedian, or serious actor, which option would you choose? If there was only one insult word you could use against people for the rest of your life, which word would you pick?
If you could immediately have your dream body but it would give your best friend twenty extra pounds, would you do it? How would you spend your free time if you could never watch tv, read a book, or spend any of your time on any smart device ever again?
Taking a shower, brushing your teeth, washing your clothes. You can only pick 2 out of the 3 for the rest of your life.
Would you rather have an infinite number of good friends, or two incredible, loyal, absolute best friends? If you could only communicate with one other person for the rest of your life — other than your significant other — who would you choose?
Watch the video above for a quick cheatsheet of some of the best questions to ask a girl over text or in-person. Holly is the author of Severe d: A Creepy Poetry Collection. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday.
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