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Read at your own discretion. Once inside, the hand can be clenched in a fist or the fingers can remain straight. When my partner first mentioned wanting to fist me, I was terrified.

The thought of an entire hand being in me was a bit daunting. I was confused about how that could even be physically possible. My partner started out slow, fingering me with the normal two fingers.

When I relaxed he would stick another finger in slowly, giving my body time to adjust, and adding more lubricant to his hand to make it easier to slide in. Once the fourth finger was sliding in, the pain started.

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My vagina had never been quite this stretched before. He stopped and let me body adjust once again. Fisting can be potentially dangerous. It can cause laceration and even fatal embolism, which is when air enters the vagina and blocks veins or arteries.

Although both of these situations are fairly rare, I suggest trying fisting with a partner who has had previous experience. Silicone-based lubricants are also good to use because they are thicker than water-based lubricants.

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The thickness of the lubricant makes the insertion of Is fisting dangerous to women hand easier and less painful. I also suggest using latex gloves to protect you and your partner from sexually transmitted infections and to give the Is fisting dangerous to women more of a slippery glide into the vagina or anus.

But for me, the benefits of fisting outweigh the cons. Being fisted gives me the most intense orgasms, and in my opinion, makes sex better. For some men and women who like to fist their partners, its a very visual sexual act. It can be very erotic. Communication is the key to great sex. Once I had the fourth finger inside me, I realized we were over halfway to getting the entire hand inside me. I told him I was ready for the fifth finger. Once it was in, the only thing left was to get the hand inside of me.


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