You should definitely make out or more! Like so many things in this cruel world, first-date-kissing-initiative can be an anxiety-provoking experience, especially for two women. No amount of successful first date hookups can take away the awkwardness of the initiation.
Compliments make me purr like a kitten. And they work both ways!
So I just say it out loud! Give a genuine compliment. If having a drink calms your nerves before a first date, then I say go for it. Trying to be cool all the time?
After my first date with my ex, I was already smitten. We had talked for hours and I was sure we had a connection.
I wanted to kiss her, but I was a scaredy cat. Then she kissed me!
Maybe you both go for tongue at the same time. But you know what?
To get to the perfect moment, you gotta take a chance! But life is awkward!