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August 22, 2: I've posted a profile on Match. I've gotten several "winks" from guys who seemed relatively interesting, so I "winked" back to them. Not a single one of them has contacted me again. Guys, why would you wink at a woman, she winks back so she's presumably interested, too, then never say another word?

Why wouldn't you follow up Match com etiquette wink with a quick "howdy" email for her to respond to? Are Seattle guys too wimpy to just drop a line after I've let them know there's a Match com etiquette interest?

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I'd love to know your thoughts if you've done this, I really can't figure it out. If this is the case, then perhaps these men are just cheapskates? They might truly be interested in you, however they might also be hoping that you're interested enough to do the paying. Are Seattle guys too wimpy to just [fill in the blank]?

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You pay by the month, not by the credit, so an email should be as free as a wink, 'cuz you're already signed up.

It is easy to wink.

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It takes more effort to: Some of them will send an email. But it's not you so much as overcoming procrastination when results are far from guaranteed.

I know Match com etiquette experience-- I'm marrying a Match. No, on Match, anybody who signs up to put up a profile can send a wink, but only paying subscribers can send an e-mail. OK, willnot and others, I guess that makes sense. Yeah, they're probably cheap and lazy tip for the men: No, no, no - you've got it all wrong: Someone winks at you, you write back if you're interested.

A wink is an initiatory move, it's not an eye for an eye, as it were The others are cheap. Either way, consider it a filter. It means the guys haven't paid. Guys need to send an email rather than a Match com etiquette, or if they wink and get winked at, they need to send an email. I realize it's a vestige of a patriarchal society where the man's supposed to pay, but That's the biggest problem with match. I much prefer those sites that sell you credits and deduct from your account for each contact, like lavalife.

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The idea that the guy has to make the first written Match com etiquette in online dating is just so much bullshit. That's the general etiquette. IMHO, Lavalife is a better site, and is pay-per-contact, not pay-per-month. In general, I probably agree that the "onus" is on me here as I look at it now, but I guess I'm still stuck on "I was interested in her, I let her know, she's interested in me too, so now I'm going to ignore her.

Solid-one-love, I couldn't disagree more. Tristeza, maybe you need a masterclass not just in online dating but in female psychology. Women get men approach them all the time. Men "wink" at women in real life just as they do online - all the time. Women have tons of options. Some of the most interesting, most beautiful women are not waiting for a guy just to smile at her before she goes all weak at the knees. Most women - whether they admit it, know it or not - are attracted to guys who take initiative.

Who do something different from the pack. That means the "wink" is the easy, obvious, cheap way out. Girls can wink at you. When that happens, you should go straight ahead and write to them. But instead of you winking Match com etiquette them, you should choose the few that interest you the most and write to them.

Follow Mayor Curley's advice and write a really good, maybe funny, maybe cocky e-mail that shows you have paid attention. If they don't Match com etiquette, brush it off and write to the next person on your list. It's tough being a guy on these sites, but get this I thought Tristeza was a guy asking about girls. It goes like this: The person who sends the Match com etiquette wink sends the first e-mail.

Yeah, you aren't doing anything wrong.